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A Note From The President

I love the "back to the school" season. It starts with hints of fall weather, the not-so- subtle retail nudges of pumpkins and Halloween, and then soaking up the Labor Day weekend with family and friends. School starts and kids have a more "regular routine" and maybe your pool, mall or Starbucks is a bit quieter. You get to rediscover your fall wardrobe, anticipate when the leaves will change color, and look forward to the holiday season.

For as much as I’ll complain about the busy event season by November, it brings me a sense of nostalgia for fall programs to get kicked off. After all the planning, designing and consulting, to see the live meeting come to life is a sense of accomplishment, and despite the long hours, a bit of joy.

The Potomac Chapter of MPI is excited to partner with the Capital Chapter of PCMA again this year for an Oktoberfest celebration on Monday, September 21 at 5:30 p.m. at Penn Social. It’s the perfect opportunity to visit with industry colleagues, make new connections, and toast to the fall season.  

Oktoberfest began with a royal wedding on October 12, 1810 where Crown Prince Ludwig invited the locals to participate in the festivities. Over time, Oktoberfest has included horse races, an agricultural showcase, carousel rides and a celebration of beer. In 2015, the 182nd Oktoberfest in Munich boasts the largest festival in the world. Similar to the planning involved for the Munich event, the joint PCMA CC and PMPI team have been creating the experience for Oktoberfest locally with support from Visit Indy, Visit Milwaukee, Greater Madison CVB, and Penn Social.

"Don't you love New York in the fall? It makes me wanna buy school supplies. I would send you a bouquet of newly sharpened pencils if I knew your name and address. On the other hand, this not knowing has its charms." – Joe Fox, You’ve Got Mail

Even if you’re not like Joe Fox and Kathleen Kelly, Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan’s characters in "You’ve Got Mail," and love the smell of freshly sharpened pencils, I hope the fall season brings you successful meetings, new connections and joy. Let us support you in Writing the Next Chapter of your personal story: Get involved with a committee, join us at Oktoberfest, and learn something new at our Educational Experiences on the afternoons of October 7 and November 12.

Cheers to the fall!

Kindly,

Amy O’Malley, CMP
President 2015-2016, Potomac Chapter of MPI




 
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Your talents for making a significant difference in your organization are the skills you are able to do better than anything else you do that can help your organization to be more successful.

Since 1998, I’ve worked directly with about 200 executives and business owners as an executive coach. I’ve provided more than 2,500 executive coaching sessions and have invested more than 3,000 hours observing executives in their day-to-day work in more than 40 industries. Here are 12 talents I’ve seen make a significant difference for an organization’s success.

Of these 12, what do you consider to be your three greatest talents?

Organizing and Delegating

People with this skill look at a desired outcome and immediately take out a sheet of paper and start writing down what needs to be done in order to accomplish it. Then they organize these tasks into specific clusters and identify who will be in charge of getting those things done.

Public Speaking

Public speaking is a skill when you comfortably stand in front of a group of people and explain the desired outcome in a compelling way that helps them to see how it is going to become a reality. The audience walks away with a belief that the objective needs to be achieved and can be achieved.

Translating Data

The ability to look at sales numbers, P&L statements, industry-wide comparisons, compensation packages, and business results and derive meaningful lessons is a skill that helps people to make better decisions in the future.

Having Individual Conversations

If you prefer to guide sustained excellence in your organization by having one-on-one conversations, then this might be your most valuable talent.

Guiding a Group

Handing out orders to people when they are sitting together in a meeting is not guiding a group. This skill is more about facilitating conversations with the group as a whole. The questions you ask will play a tremendously important role in guiding the conversation.

Writing

Is your strength in writing an email to a large group of people that clarifies the situation, the rationale behind the decision, and the steps to take going forward? Is your strength in writing handwritten notes of support and encouragement and appreciation to other people?

Offering Strategic Insights

A person is strong at offering strategic insights when he or she clearly understands the current direction of the company, the alternative directions it can choose from, and the various ways it can achieve each of those paths.

Problem-Solving

An effective problem-solver is not turned off when problems occur. Instead, the person moves into very rational approaches for identifying what is different in the current situation than what was happening when there was no problem.

Providing an Inspiring Persona

Some people have a well-honed skill for preparing themselves to walk into a room and have an immediate impact on the people around them. Their level of physical fitness, the words they use, the tone of their voice, and the way they dress combine together to positively impact the way other people in the room think.

Teaching

Teaching is essentially breaking down an idea or a process into smaller bites and explaining it in practical ways so the other person can understand it and use it right away.

Coaching

You have the skill of a coach if you can patiently observe another person in his or her day job without interrupting or intervening, and then later in that day or week discussing your insights with the person on the observed performance.

Making Painful Decisions

If this is your talent, then you see the value of making a painful decision. Firing an employee can be the best thing for a person if it causes him or her to finally make the behavior changes necessary to succeed in the future. Cutting loose a popular product can make room for a greater product in the future. If making painful decisions is a talent of yours, then you also have the ability to explain your decision in a humane manner.

Which three of these talents do you do better than the others?

Organizing and Delegating

Public Speaking

Translating Data

Having Individual Conversations

Guiding a Group

Writing

Offering Strategic Insights

Problem-Solving

Providing an Inspiring Persona

Teaching

Coaching

Making Painful Decisions

Use Your Talents to Make a Significant Difference

Once you’ve identified your three most valuable talents, develop a plan on how to use them more regularly to make an even more significant difference in your organization. Then work with other people in your organization to identify their three greatest talents. The key to achieving excellence is to get more people using their greatest talents on a more regular basis.


This article is the second part in Dan Coughlin's five-part series on Know Your Assets for Significance. It’s called, "Your Greatest Talents."



About Dan Coughlin

As a business keynote speaker, executive coach and management consultant, Dan Coughlin teaches The Any Person Mindset, which is a practical management approach for improving individual, group and organizational performance in a sustainable way. It is based on his belief that any person can make a significant difference in an organization, but no one is born with the traits necessary to make a significant difference. These are learned thinking traits. Visit his free Business Leadership Idea Center at www.thecoughlincompany.com.


 

Hundreds of studies have been conducted on the positive effects and health benefits of being happy. It’s hard to argue with the facts, a happy you equals a healthy you. Although I have always considered myself a happy person personally, as I have developed my professional life as well, I have discovered that the happier I am, the more successful my business became too.

Here are five rules to help you live a life of happiness:

1. DON’T TAKE LIFE SO SERIOUSLY.

As I was growing up, my dad would always have to remind me that worrying about things that are outside of my control was harmful to my attitude and ultimately challenging my ability to be happy. Plus, I had no control so I should stop worrying. He’d continue by saying that worrying about something within my control was not needed since I had the ability to fix the problem by taking action. Our time on this earth is limited, it’s extremely important to make the most of it while we are here. Look at life as a dress rehearsal, even if we mess up our lines, we can stop, take some advice from the experts that support us and guide us through it, and get back to the show.

2. DEFINE FOR YOURSELF WHAT SUCCESS MEANS.

Don’t let others define what success means to you. Success to you might be a filled bank account, fancy automobiles and material items. To others it might mean free time, lots of family gatherings and plenty of staycations. Professionally, success to me means working for myself, never having to hire staff and creating my own products and services. Personally, it means loving and being loved while enjoying the time I have in this lifetime. Someone else might define success as being CEO of a Fortune 500 company, having hundreds of staff members and having a corporate Amex card. You have the ability to make your own goals, dream your own dreams and define what success means to you.

3. YOU HAVE AN UNLIMITED AMOUNT OF DO-OVERS

About 40 years ago, my brother and I would play ping pong in our rec room. To the right of the ping pong table stood a rubber tree plant. When the ball either hit the rubber tree plant or came too close to make a return shot, we’d yell "DO-OVER!" As an adult we have unlimited do-overs. As your professional career evolves, if you don’t like the direction you are going, take a do-over. Nearly three years ago, at 48, I decided to take a professional do-over, reinventing my professional life to where it is today as an author, speaker and business consultant. I have never been happier in my life and while there have been some very scary moments, it has also proven to be one of the most rewarding directions I have ever gone, making me extremely happy.

4. WORRY LESS ABOUT WHAT THEY THINK.

Who the heck is "they" anyway? And honestly, until "they" are paying my bills and living my life, "they" don’t know what is best for me. I get to define my happiness and determine what life is all about for me. What it really comes down to is this: You have to deal with the consequences of your actions, and "they" get to walk away. There will always be a court of public opinion and you will never be able to please all of the people in that court, so you may as well make decisions and take action based upon what works best for you and not "them."

5. PLAY BY YOUR OWN RULES.

There is nothing worse than a static policies and procedures manual. Sure, there are some rules that are very important to follow. I usually put them into the category of common sense. Rules like, "Don’t harass your coworkers," or "Physical or verbal bullying will not be tolerated and subject to termination." People breaking these rules need to get a life and should actually try to harness that negative energy into something positive, lasting and beneficial to the human race. Happiness is created by treating others fairly, doing what feels right, making a positive impact on the planet and by following what you are passionate about.

When I originally sat down to write this post, I was challenged by the idea of creating a set of rules pertaining to making rules for your life. Use these rules as guidelines and suggestions. Keep in mind, these are the rules that apply to my life and are "serving suggestions" for you. If you don’t like them, get your own set of rules and start getting your happy on, today. I know it will be worth it and will ultimately, make you very happy.



Doug Sandler is a keynote speaker, author and Huffington Post blogger. His weekly posts appear on his website as well. His book, "Nice Guys Finish First," is available on Amazon.com or by visiting www.DougSandler.com.

 
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